My Reactions To Dear @LindaIkeji and Aunty @BellaNaija My Husband Is …

Dear Linda Ikeji and Aunty Bella,

My name is Nkechi and I really need your advice.

Please be honest with me. My husband is an amazing man, he really loves me. But he has one little problem. It’s really a little problem to be honest … it’s so small that if you blink you might miss it.

You see my husband occasionally likes to touch my face with his fists. And sometimes, actually most times it results in bruises all over and it hurts. But its really nothing crazy. He still loves me.

And lest I forget, sometimes, he gets really emotionally abusive and screams at me. Calling me names in front of our children. One time we were arguing and he accidentally pushed me down the stairs.

He also stays at home all day and refuses to find a job. So I have to provide for the family, clean the house and take care of the children all by myself.

My friends say I should leave him, my neighbors say I should leave him, and even my children say I should leave him, and sometimes a voice deep deep down inside of me says I should leave him too. So my question is this …

Should I leave him?

Me: ???

Commenter 1: You really should leave …

Me: Thank You!

Commenter 1: … And go to church so we can pray for you. Then go back to your husband because the bible says …

Me: Son of a beech!

Commenter 2: Ignore Commenter 1, you need to run away from him, he might hurt you.

Me: Brilliant Advice

Nkechi: But but I really really love him …

Me: Are you out of your MIND!

Me: I am done with this ish …

Written by Okechukwu Ofili of ofilispeaks.com
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